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TorturedLady is a neck that holds many meanings at the back which are invisible to the Internet World .. I seem sorrowful from the cover but when you read my contents you will realize that i am so gleeful .. "Dont Judge TL by her cover, just read her pages ! " =)

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7月7日

I am back after a long time =)

TorturedLady is finally here after a long time leave from the net ..
 
Hi folk, what are you doing with the World Cup .. well it is gona end on Sunday ..
 
Is it  (ITALY) OR  (FRANCE) ,, whom do u expect is gona win ??? 
 
Hope u r all doing well .. here are some picx taken lately during my abscense .. enjoy
 
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New glasses ;)

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Central Perk is the best Cafe =)

 

Please pass by and say at least HI

 

4月21日

Unforgottable moments

Thank you
 
Thank u for the great unforgottable moments bestie ...
I had a wonderful time ........
 
& thank u for the rest who really cared to send a gift , message or just
call me on my birthday ... that was so sweet .. teengirls/th_5e3b699f.gif
 
.. HERE are some PICX took on that day ..
 
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Thank u besite that was so gr8 =)
 
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Good memories are always kept in our minds, watered by our hearts (:
 
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u r special to me too ;)
 
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Thankx 4 the great time ..... i had fun !
I wont feel happy if u weren't there ........ u mean the world to me ..
 
Sister sakura, u were so cute too ;)
 
thankx again for all of ya ............ teengirls/th_5e3b699f.gifu made my day
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
4月14日

Health what counts !

Life is amazing if we just understand its concept.
During my sickness i valued life a lot and knew exactly how life and health are
complementary to each other where they reflect some of the happiness flavor
to your soul .. happiness that many people dont really know what really means ..

Is it really being rich , smart, creative , loveable , .. etc .. no it is
Health. if you dont have the health you wont enjoy any of those ..

I was in a horrible pain the past few days, felt lonely eventhough i am sorrounded
by my beloved. Many were asking me to get well soon and they thought it was
easy, well it was hard , so hard ..
When you are sick, your beloved can raise your morale and make you feel good but
to get survived is really fall in your hands. You yourself and only yourself can help
get over such a situation ..

My beloved gave me the hand to get through my sickness, but my strength and
determination had the key role in my survival .. Now after having my health back, i
realized how life turns its back on you when you become mean and look at it
with pessimistic eyes .. Depression & surrender can never help you get over
things, but faith and determination can help you kill your sickness and have
a healthy happy life without any pain ..

Thank you bestie for being there for me , you are a real best friend .. (hugs)

Piece of advice: never go to gym and eat little like i did :P


3月31日

Solitude and Loneliness

 
Solitude definition sounds like relaxation and recharging your batteries,
loneliness is the negative feeling that can lead to depression and
self-esteem problems.

Many of us get locked up in the crowd of our society whether it is
at work, home, college, school or any other place. We don’t seem to escape
or have some privacy which can spoil our mood and make us unable to connect
with the surrounding people anymore.

We might catch ourselves reacting in wrath and anger with any
person no matter how close he/she is. There is no wonder that some will get a
 bit of a contradiction within their conversation with very close people. Like
 “I really need you beside me cause I don’t want to be a lone” then when that
person tries to give some comfort, you just turn up very anxious and you might say
some obnoxious words that might confuse your partner.

You might start weeping because this is not the true you are but it is really out of
your hands.

“I literally don’t know what to do with myself”


Here comes the solitude that is vital to our wellbeing and that solitude that many
fear that it will lead to loneliness. You should just take a break from your
surrounding and recharge your batteries to replenish your energy levels and be able
 to reconnect with the people. Just omit the words “Lonely and fear”
from your brain and start enjoying life more.
  • Try to spare some time for yourself and only yourself and don’t look at it like
  • a situation you simply find yourself in but a positive choice of your own.
  • Exclude the word LONELY when you are just having some privacy.
  • Just try to find out why you fear being alone and start tackling the underlying problems.
  • Share your feelings with a very close friend who you know he/she can help and bare you in this state ...
  • Turn your negative thoughts into positive ones
Sometimes we lose touch with people for a while, but this is all for our own
good where we find out resources within ourselves and do some
soul-searching, we might lose our way but finally we can find the right
path and finally find ourselves.

Piece of advice: When you find a person who really needs to be on his own,
just leave him because you cannot know how much harm you can cause when
you are there pushing him so hard!
3月21日

Mother's Day

 Today is mother's day ... it is true that we should love and care about our mothers
not only today but all the days but it is nice to send a message or just get your mom
some flowers and so you can draw a wonderful smile on her lovely face ....
 
 
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MOTHER'S ARE THE SWEETEST.

When you have a mother
who cares so much for you
that anything you want
becomes her desires
When you have a mother
who is so understanding that
no matter what is bothering you
she can make you smile
When you have a mother
who is so strong that
no matter what obstacles she faces
she is always confident in front of you
When you have a mother
who actively pursues her goals in life
but includes you in all her goals
you are very lucky indeed
Having a mother like this
makes it easy to grow up
into a loving, strong adult
Thank you for being this kind
of wonderful mother.

~Susan P Schutz~

 

 Thank you mom for being always there for me ..

 

3月19日

~ Beauty of what you love

 


I just updated my thread about Love at work Please share =)

Why most people resign?
Why some people are not satisfied and feel not appreciated?
Why the majority feels useless?? Why?


Is this because you are working for long hours, some of the
employees get into your nerve, the manager never appreciates your
work or because
you are not comfortable with the surrounding
environment.
What could be the reason behind work issues?




You will find many issues if you just go to a workplace, and not certainly
every work place is so ideal. Some employees spend the working day as if they
were in a battle and start fighting with everyone with a lot of disrespect.
Others can feel that their workplace is like home, so they become very
supportive and easy to work with.



So characters differ from person to another and we cannot instill the
good manners in people, we should just bare them and accept
them the way they are.

Many students rush into summer jobs because they find it so interesting and useful,
but it is totally different when this student starts having a permanent job.



You might find some employees who laugh and talk nicely to you and when they just
join their group, they start gossiping in your absence.
They might even brainwash your manager and that might lead him to be not
receptive to any idea of yours. But again, are you going to make a big deal
and let it get into you and activate the negative impact button in
your productivity remote control. Or you will just ignore and be on focus.



Resolving such problems is really all in your hands.
Let the beauty of what you love be what you do “.
It is very important that employees love what they do in order to enhance
their performance, which will increase their productivity.

If you really love your job, you will be so productive. On the other hand, if you
are working on something you have little or no interest in, surely you wont be efficient and
by time you might think of resigning.



At the end, it is true that you have to be patient in a workplace when problems
get accumulated, but when things exceed the limit you have to think thoroughly
and be strong enough to face the situation and make the right and final decision of
either continue pursuing your career in that place or just resign.
2月25日

لا تطلب المفقود لكي ....

 
لا تطلب المفقود لكي لا تفقد الموجود

okay what do we mean by that ..... when you ask for things you dont have or need to
have continually you will lose what you have in hand ... actually i heard that from
a religious lecturer and liked to share this piece of information with you ..

so let me give u some examples ..

1. Some wives ask too many things from their husbands and that
lead to divorce
2. Mothers are not happy with their kids and they always compare them
with others, they lose their love
3. Managers ask from their employees too much work to do
without providing them the good healthy environment, they lose their efficiency

4. Friends ask for too much and give nothing in return, they lose
your care and love ..
5. Teachers ask their students to do many assignments in a single day,
they do non of them .......
6. Servants are asked to stay one more year, they run away ..
7. You busy yourself with your work without giving time to yourself,
your beloved ppl enjoy their time with someone else ...
8. You ask the sellers for more discount, they ask you to get out of
their store and buy nothing ...
9. Teens ask their parents to stay online longer than usual, they ask
them to get offline ....

I guess if i am gona think of more i'll end up with 100 points or sth ...
 but can't think more ,, honestly wont write more points ,
do u know why ????

10. TL writes more points for space members to read, they will just click
back and read nothing ........
 
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