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7月7日 I am back after a long time =)TorturedLady is finally here after a long time leave from the net ..
Hi folk, what are you doing with the World Cup .. well it is gona end on Sunday ..
Hope u r all doing well .. here are some picx taken lately during my abscense .. enjoy
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New glasses ;)
Central Perk is the best Cafe =)
Please pass by and say at least HI
4月21日 Unforgottable moments♡ Thank you ♡
Thank u for the great unforgottable moments bestie ...
I had a wonderful time ........
& thank u for the rest who really cared to send a gift , message or just
.. HERE are some PICX took on that day ..
![]() Thank u besite that was so gr8 =)
![]() Good memories are always kept in our minds, watered by our hearts (:
![]() u r special to me too ;)
![]() ![]() Thankx 4 the great time ..... i had fun !
I wont feel happy if u weren't there ........ u mean the world to me ..
Sister sakura, u were so cute too ;)
4月14日 Health what counts ! Life is amazing if we just understand its concept. ![]() During my sickness i valued life a lot and knew exactly how life and health are complementary to each other where they reflect some of the happiness flavor to your soul .. happiness that many people dont really know what really means .. Is it really being rich , smart, creative , loveable , .. etc .. no it is Health. if you dont have the health you wont enjoy any of those .. I was in a horrible pain the past few days, felt lonely eventhough i am sorrounded by my beloved. Many were asking me to get well soon and they thought it was easy, well it was hard , so hard .. When you are sick, your beloved can raise your morale and make you feel good but to get survived is really fall in your hands. You yourself and only yourself can help get over such a situation .. My beloved gave me the hand to get through my sickness, but my strength and determination had the key role in my survival .. Now after having my health back, i realized how life turns its back on you when you become mean and look at it with pessimistic eyes .. Depression & surrender can never help you get over things, but faith and determination can help you kill your sickness and have a healthy happy life without any pain .. ![]() Thank you bestie for being there for me , you are a real best friend .. (hugs) Piece of advice: never go to gym and eat little like i did :P ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3月31日 Solitude and LonelinessSolitude definition sounds like relaxation and recharging your batteries,
loneliness is the negative feeling that can lead to depression and
self-esteem problems.
Many of us get locked up in the crowd of our society whether it is at work, home, college, school or any other place. We don’t seem to escape
or have some privacy which can spoil our mood and make us unable to connect
with the surrounding people anymore.
We might catch ourselves reacting in wrath and anger with any person no matter how close he/she is. There is no wonder that some will get a
bit of a contradiction within their conversation with very close people. Like
“I really need you beside me cause I don’t want to be a lone” then when that
person tries to give some comfort, you just turn up very anxious and you might say
some obnoxious words that might confuse your partner.
You might start weeping because this is not the true you are but it is really out of your hands.
“I literally don’t know what to do with myself” Here comes the solitude that is vital to our wellbeing and that solitude that many fear that it will lead to loneliness. You should just take a break from your
surrounding and recharge your batteries to replenish your energy levels and be able
to reconnect with the people. Just omit the words “Lonely and fear”
from your brain and start enjoying life more.
Sometimes we lose touch with people for a while, but this is all for our own
good where we find out resources within ourselves and do some soul-searching, we might lose our way but finally we can find the right
path and finally find ourselves.
Piece of advice: When you find a person who really needs to be on his own, just leave him because you cannot know how much harm you can cause when you are there pushing him so hard! 3月21日 Mother's Day Today is mother's day ... it is true that we should love and care about our mothers not only today but all the days but it is nice to send a message or just get your mom
some flowers and so you can draw a wonderful smile on her lovely face ....
![]() MOTHER'S ARE THE SWEETEST.
When you have a mother ~Susan P Schutz~
3月19日 ~ Beauty of what you love![]() I just updated my thread about Love at work Please share =) Why most people resign? Why some people are not satisfied and feel not appreciated? Why the majority feels useless?? Why? Is this because you are working for long hours, some of the employees get into your nerve, the manager never appreciates your work or because you are not comfortable with the surrounding environment. What could be the reason behind work issues? ![]() You will find many issues if you just go to a workplace, and not certainly every work place is so ideal. Some employees spend the working day as if they were in a battle and start fighting with everyone with a lot of disrespect. Others can feel that their workplace is like home, so they become very supportive and easy to work with. ![]() So characters differ from person to another and we cannot instill the good manners in people, we should just bare them and accept them the way they are. Many students rush into summer jobs because they find it so interesting and useful,
but it is totally different when this student starts having a permanent job. ![]() ![]() You might find some employees who laugh and talk nicely to you and when they just join their group, they start gossiping in your absence. They might even brainwash your manager and that might lead him to be not receptive to any idea of yours. But again, are you going to make a big deal and let it get into you and activate the negative impact button in your productivity remote control. Or you will just ignore and be on focus. ![]() ![]() Resolving such problems is really all in your hands. “ Let the beauty of what you love be what you do “.
It is very important that employees love what they do in order to enhance their performance, which will increase their productivity. If you really love your job, you will be so productive. On the other hand, if you
are working on something you have little or no interest in, surely you wont be efficient and by time you might think of resigning. ![]() ![]() At the end, it is true that you have to be patient in a workplace when problems get accumulated, but when things exceed the limit you have to think thoroughly and be strong enough to face the situation and make the right and final decision of either continue pursuing your career in that place or just resign. 2月25日 لا تطلب المفقود لكي ....لا تطلب المفقود لكي لا تفقد الموجود
okay what do we mean by that ..... when you ask for things you dont have or need to have continually you will lose what you have in hand ... actually i heard that from a religious lecturer and liked to share this piece of information with you .. so let me give u some examples .. 1. Some wives ask too many things from their husbands and that lead to divorce
2. Mothers are not happy with their kids and they always compare them with others, they lose their love
3. Managers ask from their employees too much work to do without providing them the good healthy environment, they lose their efficiency
4. Friends ask for too much and give nothing in return, they lose your care and love ..
5. Teachers ask their students to do many assignments in a single day, they do non of them .......
6. Servants are asked to stay one more year, they run away .. 7. You busy yourself with your work without giving time to yourself, your beloved ppl enjoy their time with someone else ...
8. You ask the sellers for more discount, they ask you to get out of their store and buy nothing ...
9. Teens ask their parents to stay online longer than usual, they ask them to get offline ....
I guess if i am gona think of more i'll end up with 100 points or sth ... but can't think more ,, honestly wont write more points ,
do u know why ????
10. TL writes more points for space members to read, they will just click back and read nothing ........ |
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